Camping!

This past weekend I went camping with some “missions” friends that I have made over the last few months. After work on Friday, I headed 3 hours east near Ponca, AR on the Buffalo River to meet 7 friends. Libby and Katie, who are two twin sisters, along with Brittne from my China travels and Jarod Townsend, Luke and a couple of new friends made a campfire quite cozy on Friday evening. I arrived a little late, and lucky for me, the tents were set up and the fire was blazing. Set right on the Buffalo River, I knew we would be in for a treat when the sun came up. You could see the granite cliffs rising above the river in the moonlight.

Everyone was so inviting and genuine to me throughout the weekend. I was the only one who doesn’t attend Mercyview with them, but they treated me as one of their own. We chatted around the fire, ate smores and toasted bananas, and laughed a lot. We encouraged each other and just enjoyed one another’s’ company.

Saturday morning, I woke up to Luke and Mitch making “pourover” coffee, which takes way more science and measuring than I realized. It’s a funnel that flows into a beaker like object. You pour boiling water over hand-ground beans and it slowly trickles into the glass. Very strong and very good. We had a divine breakfast of Katie’s scrambled eggs, bacon, and biscuits cooked in a dutch oven over a fire. Yum! With our stomachs full, we headed out for a hike in the mountain wilderness. This 3 mile hike did not disappoint. We meandered through woods, then eventually hugged the side of a mountain that had a several hundred foot drop. Lots of sitting, pondering and pictures followed. I wish I had some to post but hopefully soon. The leaves were mostly off the trees, but the silence of the Ozarks was really cool, broken up by the occasional eagle flying over the valley below. I came back to Tulsa Saturday afternoon, but the rest of the group stayed through Sunday. It sounds like the weekend continued to entertain after I left.

Its always good to get away for a time of refreshment. On my drive to and from camping, I got a chance to spend time talking with the Father. I’m really trying to be thankful for all he has provided for me, especially during this time of the year. He has been so gracious to me- providing me employment, putting people in my life who truly care and love me, giving me challenges for growth, and forgiving me when I fail Him. I’m thankful for this year- the good and the bad. In looking back on what I wanted to accomplish in 2013, many things have been done. Some haven’t but there is still time. Just like the river below our tents, I yearn to always be flowing and never stagnant. Being stagnant causes water to lose its vitality and life. Things stop moving in a river that stops flowing. I don’t want to be stagnant or lukewarm.  Rather, I want to be challenged daily to live for him and show what “living water” is like- refreshing, purifying and nourishing. To a great weekend!

Make it a great day,

Jeff

Ignorance truly is bliss!

Hello friends. This week I deactivated my facebook account for a temporary hiatus. I must say that its been ultimately refreshing. Day 1 I found myself typing in facebook.com in the car when I'd come to a red light then catch myself when it asked for a password. Day 2, I thought about it less. I did a FB break a couple of years ago and it was great. I find myself, at my own fault, becoming envious, coveting, annoyed, or any other adjective you want to insert for basically playing the compare game with other people. Most of the time not anyone's issue but mine. And sometimes, you have put up guardrails against things that wear at your soul. So, I'm almost 3 days into this and I feel great! I'm choosing to spend the countless wasteful time I would spend on FB on more productive things, like praying for others. Instead of browsing on my phone at lunch, I'm trying to spend more time in the Word. A couple of guys and I are reading John 6-7 this week, so I've been trying to meditate on those scriptures more and more. Its seemed a little more distant without social media, but I think the benefits of a break far outweigh the negatives. A friend joined me in the hiatus after I told him about it, so its nice to have some accountability of not looking at it again until Jan 1 (the goal that was set).

Side note- I've been so blessed to get some texts this week with scripture that really has lifted my soul- full of encouragement.  Caleb and K- thank you! God gives us just what we need at just the right time.

Finally, Baylor is playing OU in football tomorrow night. I'm really hoping for a victory. I have some friends coming over to watch the game and enjoy some Aspen Diner sandwiches, so it should be an entertaining, laid back evening.

Make it a great Baylor day!

Jeff

Life is short.

My heart has been somewhat heavy all weekend. Yesterday morning I heard of the death of Johanna Mae, She was drivng in Sapulpa and was hit has she turned left onto 81st Street and New Sapulpa Road. She was a really kind barista who I saw 3-4 times a week at DoubleShot coffee, where I frequent for work throughout the week and on Friday mornings for coffee club. I danced with here at the Caravan and everytime I saw her, she always had such a sweet smile and so kind. I was really sad she died so suddenly and I know that her boyfriend Garth is hurting too. She was a believer, so it gives me comfort to know she is celebrating with Jesus right now. On Sunday morning, I found out that a good friend's mom I grew up with went home to the Savior this morning. My heart breaks for Dusty and his family. Gabi was always such a kind-hearted person who would always offer hospitality to us growing up. I know she leaves behind a large void in Dallas, and I'm praying for Dusty. She had a cancer that developed very quickly and spread.
These two passings have made me realize this weekend that we never know when our time on this Earth will end. It made me think about what I am doing for the Kingdom, and also to value each relationship fully, because we really will never know if its the last time we will see them. I saw Johanna Friday morning as I was leaving Doubleshot and said hi to her behind the counter. What a crazy thing that she will not be there when I return Monday. These two deaths have made me a bit somber and feeling down this weekend. To juxtapose these sad occurences, I was able to celebrate with Lance, one of Michael's (who I mentor) good friends as he was baptized today, celebrating eternal life that he will now have with the Father. I went to Life Church Broken Arrow Campus to see Lance's baptism. Michael got to help baptize his friend, who he now shepherds in his life group. Lance's family and friends (over 20) came over to my house after service for a meal of pulled pork sandwiches. We were able to celebrate the decision he made that is the MOST important he will ever make! I was so happy to see Lance proclaim his salvation in a public way, and also to see how God is using Michael to further his kingdom. Michael is sold out for the Lord, and I pray he continues to be built up and prayed for as he leads and grows his small group. What an odd weekend. It felt at times empty, sad and other times joyous. Father, let me value this week as if its my last, and depend only upon you. The world will get busy with "life", but you alone are always there for me. Let me treat others like its our last week here- with kindness, humility and generosity.